For a 37-year-old woman who has been an option or better not, a woman who had never experienced a straight relationship and a real one will be kind of scary for some people or men who are so nosy of what may be the reason that this woman is having, for NOT experiencing one.
I have an answer for that! perhaps this kind of women has the following reason like:
1. They may had men courting them however, no one fits with what they are looking for.
2. This men may fit but in the end they are left by these men for a third party.
3. their parents might be interrogating these prospects too much that may lead to something.. goodbye or gone in a poof!
4. they don't have time anymore for social life since they are too engrossed and focused with their career life.
5. they must be too conservative and believe that sexual intimacy is after the wedding and they find these kind of men too aggressive for them! (well, I guess a lot men will really go away with this--- especially for the generation we are having now hahaha)
Hey people of the world! men of the world rather! This kind of women is someone to be cherished and loved! you are so lucky to find someone who will be having them for the first time, don't you think? Give them a chance. Court them if you really love or like her. Chivalry is NOT dead! what if these kind of women are just waiting for something like this that will give them sparks and the giddy feeling like a teenager to give them a glowing fresh look beautiful every day. Let's not be too stereotyping them because who knows? she might be the right person for you and for your family. What if this woman is the "it" I mean someone who will really stick to you through thick and thin.. through ups and downs of your life and accepts you as you?
Sometimes, men outside the streets are avoiding them for the reason that they find these women boring and worse... crazy psychotics. I once experienced a miracle between a super handsome guy and just an average girl who made it in the love history. Why? because this handsome guy, tried and test the waters of what if he would try to meet and date someone who is not in his "it" list. And now, they have a kid and living abroad happily.
This coming valentine's day, I am challenging all men out there to make your move to this kind of women and see what will happen. It is just a matter of guts. As people say, Not guts No glory! Then let me know your experiences.