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Thursday, May 19, 2016

It Must Have Been Love..but it's OVER now! The Story of Apples NBSB

Hahahahahahahahahaha! what a title...one of the greatest hits of Roxette in the 90's . In reality...it is too difficult to find LOVE. Describe LOVE....naku! mahabang explanation wag na lang. I am writing this to encourage women like me to still stay there and wait. Don't follow your impulse and jump into something that you would REGRET sometime in your life. I know it is hard.. quite difficult when you see in every friend reunion and family reunion that you all see them happy with their own families. I can say that. Because I'm there. Many would ask Nye! bakit? ang ganda mo tapos wala? Ok ka lang di ka ba tao? you know "the needs"? or meron pa... "tuod" ka ba...wahahahahahahahahaha.What a hell of questions pero sa totoo lang na-eenjoy mo yung moments being single. Own space. No Rules. You can do what you want etc....etc....

One disadvantage lang siguro is when you will be at the point of a bad pms as in ang target "emotional feelings" and then when you needed some support everybody is too busy with their thing.
Boom! you will feel totally ALONE.

What is the connection of this blog to the title? sabi nga ni Elle sa Legally Blonde movie  "I promise I have a point!" Oh well.. a lot of women like me who is just in their average beauty, cleverness etc.. had experience situations like "It Must Have Been Love, But It's Over Now"..yung bang Ayan na! ang sweet etc.. yun pala sa huli Boom! di pala!

A lot of females are in this kind of dilemma. Some take it lightly.. some take it  seriously.. kaya hirap maka-move on and worst di na maka -launch sa bagong pag-ibig. Just like what others do.. Forget about being inlove.

Lets get into Apples' life ...she has been into It must have been love... then ngwek! di pala. I like her fighting spirit nakakabilib. Even with her lots of launch in love na epic fail naman... aba! try and try o  until you succeed ang motto niya sa buhay.

Experience#1 : First crush, first love, she's like a damn sunod-sunuran just to be liked by this childhood friend. When the guy left for U.S. Boom! heartbreak ang lola niyo. After 10 years he called her in her office? Wow! he knows? How? Why? ....and he even said sweet things to her...."arrange a reunion for all of us, I'll be the one to pay..." for her "why will I do that?" .. just do it.. what are friends are for. Ang tanga, ginawa naman. So eto ka na dumating... napasunod naman ni Apples yung mga childhood friend nila. So kanta moments sila, inom happy happy. Grand entrance si Guy....ooops may girl na kasama. Pero for her friends na nga lang diba. So Okay pa rin. Tuloy ang ligaya. Selfie-selfie together and of course silang dalawa.. etc. After months of staying in Manila. The girl in the party called her... "Hey Apples can you meet me? Ang loka sunod nanaman. She have her a rim of emails pretending to be Apples but actually Apples doesnt know anything about it. And she doesnt have that kind of email address.. Sa sobrang awa sa sarili ni Apples, and confusion.. literal pina-psyche niya pati yung rim ng emails. The psyche recommended for a cyber bullying crime. Apples went with the flow of the girl. She invited her to an engagement party. Wow! artista! may ganon papala.. Kung tutuusin Apples is living in a much better life than her. Sa loob loob na lang ni Apples, pag-lumabas ang demand letter at andito pa kayo lets see. At saka ang lakas ng tama nung girl kay Experience# 1 para mag-gagawa pa ng ganon.. She is totally an insane woman. Kawawang Apples.. suntok sa buwan ang vengeance. Hayaan na lang raw ang karma .

Experience#2
Nauso na si yahoo messenger.. chat dito chat doon. Astig! may nakapansin. Si Experience #2. He is a 5"11 handsome guy who lives with his whole family in a hectare of farm in Michigan. They had a LDR o yung tinatawag na long distance relationship for 3 years. Siyempre mamamatay sa kilig ang lola niyong si Apples. Pucha kamukha ba naman ni Dino Guevarra sa T.G.I.S. si guy. Weird you know because the guy proposed on chat. Where the witness is the 20 years yaya nila Apples. After a week, the ring came. Next week after, there was no foreign object who arrived in NAIA. The excuse of the guy, "Im too scared of the Abusayaf honey". Take note, nakipag video chat pa ang parents ni guy how safe will he be in the Philippines ang peg. Boom! hanggang sa totally wala na. The only memories Apples may have of him is the ring and her older sister who became friends with her in facebook.

Experience#3
New job! Higher position and Apples became sexier and prettier. With her soft and kind heart one time her cousin on her mom's side called her for a favor " girl, accept mo naman itong si German hottie para sa English Teacher niyo" anak ng amo ko ito magaling ito (accountant kasi siya ng mommy ni German hottie). Checking the credentials, aba'y true nga. Since they have one common denominator----her cousin, they became good friends. Oopps! uy pareho papala sila ng subdivision. so uso na ang carpool  . Na nauwi sa MU malabong usapan. hahahahahahahaha. Taga-ayos ng neck tie, taga cheer up of the day, taga hawak ng wallet, HHWW (holding hands while walking)  etc etc.. ang naging work ni Apples kay German Hottie pero ano sila? Well hindi nila alam kasi go with the flow ang peg. Intimacy? yes meron naman.. pero going down there? NONE saved after marriage raw. Bilib ako sa pagpalaki ng grandma ni Apples ang galing ng control.. which I think type ni German Hottie. Isang araw, may sakit raw si German Hottie. Di papasok. Ok so no carpool for the day. Apples made her work very fast checking every Teacher in class... and when she had a free time she bought lunch and went to German hottie's house... planning to eat lunch together and to check if he is fine na. Doorbel rings, bukas ng gate si becky yaya. "Ay ati bukit  anditu ka?" (with an awkward look) ..."maglulunch tayo gaga! prepare table!"---"why are you on my way?...MOVE" (o diba patintero sila). They prepared the table.  "Si Tita wala no? How long they will be in Germany?" ..becky yaya nods for yes but quiet. She called for German hottie's name many times aba walang sagot. Apples checked The Italian room (living room full of From Italy furnitures), the China room (2nd living room with China vases and all), the Mexican Dining (where they prepared the food and with mexican accents) ... The Royal Dining for fine dining parties and all the other rooms...hmmmm aba wala. ....except for the family room with Family Entertainment and aircon . From a far, you can hear something is squeaking. When Apples opened the door! Bam! German hottie is screwing their secretary in where they work.. Pucha! kaya pala wala rin... at #%$^&^&^%$ ina lang rin sabi mag-mcdonalds with their other friends. Betrayed by a  friend? Yes!

Experience#4
The bestest of them ever! Apples went to reach her dream when it comes to..you know career . Now she's one of the partners of where she works. One day a single guy came into where she works since her partner is not around who is the founder. The aide called her inside the office and said "mam, ajan si sir medyo problematic, nakapambahay and he looks awful. When she tried to peep who the person was, aba oo nga he looks awful. Kawawa naman she thought. "Yaya get a roll of tissue be with them and I'll talk to the person outside". Uy naging counselor na siya even she doesnt know what to say since she's never been married. Before pa lang,  her partner and the others were teasing her to the same person who is awful that day. Kasi they can smell something raw??? what?? e ano?? this awful guy kasi was always visible during summer time playing at grounds where she works before and kung tutuusin raw, he is not supposed to be there.  Hmmm.. mga malisyosa. She doesnt like the guy. She finds him a matchstick and parang super depressed with his life. Days, months, passed, the guy started o text her in a questionable manner? why? he was her client.. mag text ba naman sayo si client ng "I'll be at _______ just check on them for me". Questionable diba? Meron pang isa, " Hi, where are you?" ang gagang Apples sinagot naman.."Ah at home po, why?" "I'm here lang in my friends house drinking". ?????? Mas questionable diba??  and the rest went "Good morning.. etc... and some simple messages na inignore na lang niya.  One time, a little baby was keep on calling Apples mommy.... Weird. why? because the baby was the boy of the single guy. Scary pero smile na lang lola niyo. Another point fact, one time he just arrived at her house and the dad and the guy drank. You know bonding ng guys. ?????Why??? when he can feel na siguro that the alcohol is getting into him, he ran to Apples side and just quietly stayed at her side with a red face. Then the story of kilig went on. To make it short, one time the other kid of the same person, medyo malaki na ito, is keep on asking her, do you have a bf? do u like him? and the like.. e ano naman ngayon when he asked the boy. Well, the boy smartly answered, If he likes you, will it be ok? bec if it is..you will be a good mom to us.. youre so caring etc... Apples heart melted. Pero shempre di pahalata. Pero questionable pa rin. Nahihiya naman siyang magtanong kung anong meron. At baka magmukha lang siyang tanga. One time, with fb she saw her friend's comment thread with Exp#4 na shocks siya nakita niya? di naman siya malisyosa but what she saw alarmed her and she panicked. Until one time, her gut feel was right. Wala na .. He went cold.. she doesnt know why. Until one day she let her friend went drunk at siya lumaklak ng Olive oil para di malasing. This girl confessed something that broke her heart.Betrayal #2 by a friend? O yes! yes! yes!

Crap!  Wala na talaga. She pulled away herself from the situation even if for it was the hardest part for her. She went like a matchstick. Zombie like. Had asthma na before wala naman. Na E.R. ang loka! at keep on sorry naman si friendster sa E.R. nung nalaman niyang ang patient niya e si Apples. Siyempre, separation anxiety ba naman e. Pick Pack Boom! sayang diba.. happy ending story sana diba? pero hindi, sabi ni Direct God, wag tapusin ang teleserye malay mo baka may twist. hahahahahahahahahaha.

Experience#5
Healing her heart, her cousins were the craziest of them all! They went out sometime along the nearest commercial area and bond with their youngest Uncle. Invited pala 2 of their childhood playmates. Both have been to another country for work and they are here for a rest. Ok. after 1 week, one of the invited, called Apples and asked her for meet up in a coffeeshop. Nyak! galing bang Saudi para maging balbas sarado?!?!?! test pala yun. hahahahaha then the story carry on and they went ok.. then later on Apples father went ballistic when he found out that this guy was trying to pursue her. Pero siyempre di pahalata.Ito namang si father e malisyoso and very judgemental. Wala pa nga akala mo magpapasakal na este magpapakasal na. He tried to question the guy after dinner with the family.
"Kung kayo na anong gagawin mo sa anak ko?" "Kaya mo bang buhayin anak ko?" Wow! over-reacting diba? So then after a week.....chuk..chak... ting! Wala na si guy... pasok ngayon si Imelda Papin dito... "Isang linggong Pag-ibig" ....Hahahahahahahahaha!

Between Experience #2 and 3 meron pang-isa... si Bestfriend in highschool... they were like best friends for the longest time and was caring with each other every downs in their lives. On Apples birthday, He confessed his feelings to her. But she didnt say yes kasi nga Apples doesnt want their friendships to be ruined. However, deep inside her she wanted to say Yes. Duwag lang. Bestfriend went home. They didnt meet for 4 months. Until nagulat na lang si Apples, kinasal na sa ibang country. Heart breaking? Yes. Pero kunwari hindi.

You see, she was branded by her crazy cousins and friends as NBSB, but I dont think she was. She had this beautiful moments with these different people nga lang at the end, some became jerks.. and kung di naman, di natapos ang storya ng teleserye nila.

Nagiintay ka pa ba ng Experience#6? from her? well she does too! She keeps on praying and trying hard to meet this "one" who will make the story a happy ending. Love, mahirap i-explain pero once its there..its there and just let every moment sparkle with kilig, laughter and being together.


-anythingunderthesun

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