For a 37-year-old woman who has been an option or better not, a woman who had never experienced a straight relationship and a real one will be kind of scary for some people or men who are so nosy of what may be the reason that this woman is having, for NOT experiencing one.
I have an answer for that! perhaps this kind of women has the following reason like:
1. They may had men courting them however, no one fits with what they are looking for.
2. This men may fit but in the end they are left by these men for a third party.
3. their parents might be interrogating these prospects too much that may lead to something.. goodbye or gone in a poof!
4. they don't have time anymore for social life since they are too engrossed and focused with their career life.
5. they must be too conservative and believe that sexual intimacy is after the wedding and they find these kind of men too aggressive for them! (well, I guess a lot men will really go away with this--- especially for the generation we are having now hahaha)
Hey people of the world! men of the world rather! This kind of women is someone to be cherished and loved! you are so lucky to find someone who will be having them for the first time, don't you think? Give them a chance. Court them if you really love or like her. Chivalry is NOT dead! what if these kind of women are just waiting for something like this that will give them sparks and the giddy feeling like a teenager to give them a glowing fresh look beautiful every day. Let's not be too stereotyping them because who knows? she might be the right person for you and for your family. What if this woman is the "it" I mean someone who will really stick to you through thick and thin.. through ups and downs of your life and accepts you as you?
Sometimes, men outside the streets are avoiding them for the reason that they find these women boring and worse... crazy psychotics. I once experienced a miracle between a super handsome guy and just an average girl who made it in the love history. Why? because this handsome guy, tried and test the waters of what if he would try to meet and date someone who is not in his "it" list. And now, they have a kid and living abroad happily.
This coming valentine's day, I am challenging all men out there to make your move to this kind of women and see what will happen. It is just a matter of guts. As people say, Not guts No glory! Then let me know your experiences.
Saturday, February 4, 2017
Sunday, July 24, 2016
An Inspirational letter
An article-letter struck me and really made me cry while reading it. It was an article-letter of a daughter for her parents who seem to be "un"-parents to her with their daily throw of words with each other and an attitude that did not grow for the many years of raising their children as well growing together. It is somewhat I was able to get in to the story. Here's the letter:
Dear Dad and Mom,
I felt sad when mommy has to leave the country to work and only the two of us will be left here together. Our first year as Daddy and daughter tandem was full of fun! You leave the house for work and I bring you to the gate waving to see you later - hug you and kiss you, you cook for the two of us while I play with my playmates in the afternoon, then at night we will make a record voice for mom and or a letter and you will make jokes like the well-known comedian in the country. However, it took you only months to be like that to me. Not until you started going home in the morning. I know that you carry me (while asleep) home from grandma's bed. My daily routine became me and me only. I go to school, go home, play with my playmates, and if I am called in the afternoon by grandma, she will get upset because I have the dirtiest feet ever from playing all afternoon and I smell terrible from sweat and dirt. I sleep with grandma all the time, I eat with my cousins and their families. When I look around while I put every tablespoon of rice into my mouth, I can see their happy faces while they joke with each other as a family. When mom came home after years of working, I do not know how to approach her. She looks like a total stranger to me. And even she's already back, your attitude of going home in the morning did NOT change and made it worse this time, you only go home and stay with us for 3 days only a monday-wednesday-friday schedule. Why?
And then when you go home, you will splurge me with new clothes and toys. Is that a good thing? Will that fill the time that you missed? I dont think so because I am not like that. Not until, I see mom crouching in the corner of the living room crying and only my hug can make her fine and we both sleep crouched on the floor of the room. Did you ever know that we always follow you in a cab with covered faces sometimes with mom's friends or even an aunt? I saw you with this woman in a red hair like us, you are driving for her and you kiss her like mom. After 9 months my little sister came to this world we are all happy to meet her. You were so happy but your routine still did not change. I became a responsible older sister to fulfill the missing time you miss for us. I became a co-parent that you seem not to see it. When mom had enough of your lies and your attitude, we left the house and lived with a relative. We were fine there. However, mom said that I have to help with the household chores and all because it is not our house. I did it even if it was difficult physically and psychologically degrading. After school, I help the nannies to clean and up all, before I do my homeworks and it seem that my little sister is still a toddler, I have to take care of her since we do not have our own nanny who can look for us while mom is at work.
When mom got approved for a work in Prince Island we were so happy. I am happy and sad both. I am happy because mom will have a new work and my sister and I will live in another country and I am enthusiastic to meet new friends there. Although, it is sad tho think about it because you will not be with us. Little sister was so playful, but as a 9-year old co-parent what do I know with taking care of another child? she got sick of coughs, colds and fever that turned to pneumonia after a few days. I feel guilty about it. Then you, you and grandma came barging into the hospital room, you even kneeled for mom's forgiveness and asks us to come back to you and dont leave the country. And all of you ask me to choose. Prince Island or Family? It was the most difficult thing for a 9-year old. I chose my Family because I dont want my little sister to grow old like me ....yes, to grow alone, lonely but with the love and supervision of others. I want to feel how's the feeling of being together and with harmony.
Years passed, everything went well but your sadness without that woman in your life made you sad like she is your world. I forced myself to understand that. That is why even if you're not working and it is only mom who works for all of us I do not complain. Even if I see her how difficult it was to be a sole-provider, I still did not complain because I always tell myself maybe you and her have talked about it who's who will be the one to earn and to be the one to stay at home and look for us. You're friends are always with us. You drink all the way until you get drunk and have a bad mouth. Still I have to understand that. Because as mommy will always say, you are still our father. When mom retired and nothing was left for her own fun and enjoyment as a retiree because she said all of her money went to the debts we had in the hospital for your recent two operations. I never thought I will be like mom. I have experienced what is like to be a sole-provider and I certainly got confused and sad and hatred came to be my first adjective to fill my heart and soul. My question was, why do I have to sacrifice on where I have been sacrificing for you for all these years? then when little sister was NOT following a good path, you said you cannot face it, I was the one who has the courage to face all the bad mouth of the other people for my little sister. Supposedly, it should be a parent task. When her marriage was on the rocks, all you can do is to drama, but you did not do anything an in-a-snap action to stop whatever is happening. She left home but you did not ask her to go back. She was confused but you shooed her away. She felt alone. I do not even know how to approach her. I do not know where she is. The gap of our age made us have a real gap. I do not know what makes her be so disrespectful of me as a person sometimes. Sometimes, I think maybe she's like that because she saw me as a co-parent and that made the gap.
When mom got approved for a work in Prince Island we were so happy. I am happy and sad both. I am happy because mom will have a new work and my sister and I will live in another country and I am enthusiastic to meet new friends there. Although, it is sad tho think about it because you will not be with us. Little sister was so playful, but as a 9-year old co-parent what do I know with taking care of another child? she got sick of coughs, colds and fever that turned to pneumonia after a few days. I feel guilty about it. Then you, you and grandma came barging into the hospital room, you even kneeled for mom's forgiveness and asks us to come back to you and dont leave the country. And all of you ask me to choose. Prince Island or Family? It was the most difficult thing for a 9-year old. I chose my Family because I dont want my little sister to grow old like me ....yes, to grow alone, lonely but with the love and supervision of others. I want to feel how's the feeling of being together and with harmony.
Years passed, everything went well but your sadness without that woman in your life made you sad like she is your world. I forced myself to understand that. That is why even if you're not working and it is only mom who works for all of us I do not complain. Even if I see her how difficult it was to be a sole-provider, I still did not complain because I always tell myself maybe you and her have talked about it who's who will be the one to earn and to be the one to stay at home and look for us. You're friends are always with us. You drink all the way until you get drunk and have a bad mouth. Still I have to understand that. Because as mommy will always say, you are still our father. When mom retired and nothing was left for her own fun and enjoyment as a retiree because she said all of her money went to the debts we had in the hospital for your recent two operations. I never thought I will be like mom. I have experienced what is like to be a sole-provider and I certainly got confused and sad and hatred came to be my first adjective to fill my heart and soul. My question was, why do I have to sacrifice on where I have been sacrificing for you for all these years? then when little sister was NOT following a good path, you said you cannot face it, I was the one who has the courage to face all the bad mouth of the other people for my little sister. Supposedly, it should be a parent task. When her marriage was on the rocks, all you can do is to drama, but you did not do anything an in-a-snap action to stop whatever is happening. She left home but you did not ask her to go back. She was confused but you shooed her away. She felt alone. I do not even know how to approach her. I do not know where she is. The gap of our age made us have a real gap. I do not know what makes her be so disrespectful of me as a person sometimes. Sometimes, I think maybe she's like that because she saw me as a co-parent and that made the gap.
After the difficulty and separation anxiety with my little sister how come I need to find out that you have an intimate communication through mobile message with our twenty years house help? Are we NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU? Was it boring to stay home so you need to have an outlet and the only outlet you can see is that nanny? I felt so down. I felt like working with chains on my both feet. You seem NOT to see that.I got depressed. I feel like I dont want to work anymore because there's no reason to be a good child if everybody is NOT. Instead, you always put me down and say that what kind of a daughter I am, that I cannot even make you eat something yummy for your taste buds.Did you know that for the past few years when everybody is still with us and we were happy together even with some petty quarrels.. I was so proud of myself that even I am bad-mouthed for many times I still get to smile because I know for myself that even my life was difficult then, I can survive and manage to feed all of you. When you got down by that scheming pyramiding scam. I was there. But when my savings were all squeezed out just to prove and show you that I STILL CAN... I was alone living in the dark that no one seems to care. I get to realize one thing after all ONLY YOURSELF CAN LOVE YOU. Then you are going to ask me what seem to make me hate the whole world? I know I cannot change another person's character but please do think that your daughter is still your daughter. She is still a part of you. Think also that being a parent is a tough job, one cannot just be like their old self and everything will be ok. A parent should come out of the box and be as best as he could for his children..even if they are grown-ups now. You cannot just pass your responsibility to anyone and do your job. Everyone has their right to live, right to work, right to speak, right to love and right to have fun.Just imagine if you will pass every burden to only one person, it is just like you have taken his/her whole life. She will never ever back TIME to do all the things she was not able to do just to save your face. I hope this letter will teach others and you. I am sorry if I hurt you, I just have to say all the things that piled up for years which seems not to be seen by you. I still love you both even if you did not love me. Sincerely yours, Katie
Sunday, July 3, 2016
The Pain that No One Can Understand but only YOU
Fibromyalgia syndrome affects the muscles and soft tissue. Symptoms include chronic muscle pain, fatigue, sleep problems, and painful tender points or trigger points, which can be relieved through medications, lifestyle changes and stress management.
This is the definition that I found on whatever is happening to me again and again especially if I overworked. It is really painful. I cannot describe the pain every time there will be an attack of tiredness. It always makes me cry like a baby. A soft touch can make react like "Whoah! Ouch!" I screamed into bad words when my shihtzu push me softly for a play every time I feed him.
I dont have any sleep problems. The thing that I cannot take sometimes is the tender pain. Even a touch sucks! What is worse is, if for example I want to stretch a sore leg... I cannot stretch it well because if I do, it will get stiff later on that will cause me to be nervous because it will take me to think a lot of things just to put back my leg into it's normal way.
I dont know where did I get this. However, it sucks for real. I will sleep early now so I will be able to go to work for tomorrow.
This is the definition that I found on whatever is happening to me again and again especially if I overworked. It is really painful. I cannot describe the pain every time there will be an attack of tiredness. It always makes me cry like a baby. A soft touch can make react like "Whoah! Ouch!" I screamed into bad words when my shihtzu push me softly for a play every time I feed him.
I dont have any sleep problems. The thing that I cannot take sometimes is the tender pain. Even a touch sucks! What is worse is, if for example I want to stretch a sore leg... I cannot stretch it well because if I do, it will get stiff later on that will cause me to be nervous because it will take me to think a lot of things just to put back my leg into it's normal way.
I dont know where did I get this. However, it sucks for real. I will sleep early now so I will be able to go to work for tomorrow.
Friday, June 24, 2016
Never been lucky with friends
Being friendly and too approachable sometimes may hurt your feelings badly why? Because you are totally opened-hearted to a person whom at the end doesnt have any intention of being true to you.
A friend of mine asked my help to let her have a chance to buy a brandnew car without being rejected by banks. Right away, since I know in my heart amd soul that my sister is the perfect agent for her without thinking any payment or so, I referred her to my sister. I did not interefere with there transaction. My idea was to help my sister earn more because I know how difficult to be a solo resident in your own home. As well to help my friend to get to purchase a new vehicle.
In a flash! After days without hearing from both parties I carried on with my life. Go to work- go home and the routine goes round and round and round, my sister called and was devastatingly angry. She was having a foul mouth as well as hysterically screaming in dismay. She said that my friend both used us and that her boss os totally disappointed on her. You know what she did?! She asked the help of my sister for an approval. They got it and then she used it in another branch leaving my sister hanging on. I feel for my sister. She was certainly all now was scolded in the office for what this client did. Now I do not know, as much as I want to be the same with her I am torn between the two of them. And i do know in me that what my friend did was a total no-no. Both my sister and I felt that we are been used again and again. Sad to say.
By the way here's the thing you are not allowed to use your approval to any other car store .. If another car store processes it for you. Respect comes in here as well as integrity. But she used the approval having another agent earn commission on where that agent dindt do anything and that cost my sister's fury. Her boss was in a total red of madness with the incident too! Tao nga naman...tsk....tsk
A friend of mine asked my help to let her have a chance to buy a brandnew car without being rejected by banks. Right away, since I know in my heart amd soul that my sister is the perfect agent for her without thinking any payment or so, I referred her to my sister. I did not interefere with there transaction. My idea was to help my sister earn more because I know how difficult to be a solo resident in your own home. As well to help my friend to get to purchase a new vehicle.
In a flash! After days without hearing from both parties I carried on with my life. Go to work- go home and the routine goes round and round and round, my sister called and was devastatingly angry. She was having a foul mouth as well as hysterically screaming in dismay. She said that my friend both used us and that her boss os totally disappointed on her. You know what she did?! She asked the help of my sister for an approval. They got it and then she used it in another branch leaving my sister hanging on. I feel for my sister. She was certainly all now was scolded in the office for what this client did. Now I do not know, as much as I want to be the same with her I am torn between the two of them. And i do know in me that what my friend did was a total no-no. Both my sister and I felt that we are been used again and again. Sad to say.
By the way here's the thing you are not allowed to use your approval to any other car store .. If another car store processes it for you. Respect comes in here as well as integrity. But she used the approval having another agent earn commission on where that agent dindt do anything and that cost my sister's fury. Her boss was in a total red of madness with the incident too! Tao nga naman...tsk....tsk
Sunday, June 12, 2016
How Difficult To Fall In Love To A Confuse Single Dad
Ten years ago I worked in a company that I never thought would be so exciting. My colleagues and I are betting on which good guy prospect will be the right one for each and everyone of us! we have our own bets... my nurse-friend’s bet is a chinito pinoy look and tall as my bet was the same as hers even if they were two guys to choose for. Oh by the way the other one was a chinito tisoy and with an average height.
Even that we have our own choices, I never thought that I would feel something with the chinito tisoy on the latter part of the story. Ok.. it started like this.....
One day at the heat of the summer sun of afternoon, he knocked on the gate of the company and asked if he can play with his little son in the playground. Since it's for public, well of course, I said yes. When my business partner came back from where she went, she said .."hmm..that's odd". "Odd? why? it's only a permission to play in the playground" I thought.
He played with the kid and then later on, enjoyed talking with me. Since, he is our client, I have to entertain him.
After months or so, while I was doing my thing in my office room, the assistant, notified me that someone is looking for me. I asked my assistant if she is saying the truth or maybe the person is looking for my business partner. The assistant said, “the person was looking for you! "Huh? For me?” I thought. "Why me?"
When I went out of the room I saw him. He's wearing his home clothes - short pants and just a white shirt. I asked him what can I do for him, then he suddenly said, "I need someone to talk to, please" with teary eyes and all. You can see and feel that there is a problem. I was correct.. (as always) (laughs). He has a problem... and the worse I guess for him, because it is all about his significant other. As immediately took the roll of tissue and gave him a part of it, while he detailed every sequence of his dilemma about her. I felt light when I did that. I never thought that listening to someone will be that good. From then on, he started sending me text messages. At first, I said "ok" because the messages were in general thought. And perhaps he just needed someone to talk to and to have someone to forget what her wife did to him.
Months passed and details of his confusion made me confuse too. His text messages were starting to feel like uncomfortable for me now and I don’t know how to answer him anymore.I sought the advice of my business partner. She gave a good advice of just let him do it every night or everyday but be sure to reply formally and without any double meaning. And so I did. However, the next days of my life was changed! My partner and my other colleagues started to tease me to the heavens. As they always say…”What if He is your forever?” "Huh? forever? I dont believe in forever."
The messages were getting deeper and deeper each day. At the back of my mind, I am already starting to feel giddy with all the messages he were sending. However part of me is quite putting a wall and limit since, it is written in our Code of Ethics generally that as a professional we are not allowed to be in such situation not unless, the person is not your client anymore. O darn!
One day, he messaged me that he needed some guidance for his children for the absence of the mother. Hmmm.. please don’t be so assuming (laughs) . He just asks me to guide his children academically. With that, since, my work is with a hectic schedule, I asks him if he could bring the children at my home, anyway, it not only them who does academic support, but there were others too ‘til late night although with different schedule. With this situation, I never thought it would be such complicated even if you’re not interested with the person.
There were late afternoons surprise visits while the children and I were studying. Maybe, he is just trying to check if I am a good person or might be a molester (laughs). One time, he was just with us for the whole time while studying. I didn’t mind it because it was his right to check on his children. And that kind of thing continued. As my client, I just entertained it in the proper manner.
There was this day, when all of them were just wearing home clothes, when the eldest ran inside the house and I saw the youngest in the car. I was so exhilaratingly excited to see the youngest, since….he is my adorable one! What made us both awkward is when he asks the little one who I am: “Hey little fella! Who is this?? Who is this?? (pointing to me).. and the little boy answered with a sly smile that made us both red faced.. “Mama!” ..”Mama!”.. He didn’t say sorry, (what I’m talking about was the dad..well, anyway nothing to sorry about). He just kept quiet with a red face. And I, just to make the situation light.. I just said “No, I am not your mama.” But still, the little fella said insistingly, “No you are!” . Oh well, we just both ignored what happened. I just prayed that night that I hope he didn’t think that it was me who taught his kid that, because if it was!? it would be really embarrassing for me. As well as for him. Vis-a Vis .
Messages in the mobile phone still continued. And this time, he was really like talking to someone who is not his counsellor anymore. He would send, “I am just in the bathroom taking number 2”. “I am here in my friend’s house and drinking”. “Could you check on the children because I will be out-of-tow...blah...blah...”. Weird as I interpret it, because I don’t know what is he trying to communicate with me. However, on my part, it was the happiest day/s of my life that finally in my long-time being single, unmarried,without kids and dating jerks. I was hoping...THIS will end it. That even there were kids, it was ok with me since I am already attached to them. Them-- as in the whole family.. the whole clan – including his brothers and sisters, the nieces and nephews.
With the use of social media we were able to find out that we are both connected with each other. We are schoolmate. However, he is one-year ahead of me.
Another thing that I will never forget is when some time, my father invited him for small talk and drink at home. He did not reject that and had a drink with the old man. Later on, I got surprised when I saw him inside our room (where his kid and I were studying). All red and sat beside me. He was staring at me and I don’t know what’s going on. To remove the embarrassing feeling, I put the book of his eldest on our faces.. so we (his kid and I) won’t see his staring eyes and red face. ( I don’t know if he was already tipsy or my old man..said something again..phew!) ( why again? Oh you know fathers right? If there’s a guy hanging around, even if you’re only friends..they think so much than a friend). The whole time was so uncomfortable. He was staring and staring and staring. I thought of an idea that could make him stop. I took a pillow and told him: “Here, use this. Sleep for a while you wait for your little kid, the alcohol will be off in an hour”. He did that although, it was really...really.... uncomfortable.
Cute and “giddy feeling” mobile messages didn’t stop. Every day of my life was a HAPPY moment. Just imagine how my endorphins were working and how these endorphins just make me so beautiful. My colleagues at work are starting to see the changes that He did in my life.
We’re like friends or more than friends or just really friends.. I don’t know but the man is a total SWEETNESS. When we were already at the moment that we were so close together, his eldest spoke to me while we were studying together. He said: “I have a question,madame?” then I asks: “Ok what is it?” the little fella said: “Are you sure you won’t get angry or mad at me if I ask?” “Nope.Ok, go on” as I replied. “Do you LOVE my DAD?” ..I caught there and wasnt able to talk for a second and then I said, “Huh? Where did you get that?” “None. I just want to know. Because if you love my dad, I am ok with you. I love you to be my mom” “Please, could you be my mom..please...please....please... or rather our mom. My brother loves you too. Imagine he calls you Mama”. He was waiting for me to answer and so my answer was,“uhmm..Ok, I cannot answer if I love your Dad. Because I am only someone to guide you academically and nothing else. Even if you and your brother love me to be your mom, it is not that easy to be in that position because, you also still need to know if your Dad agrees with it. And he has the freedom to love someone as a person. The kid kept quiet and continued writing. I became more confuse ever than before. When I went home, I went to the office of my business partner and I sought her advice. “What will I do, Fin? Is this right? Am I just assuming? How come there were situations like this?” All she was able to say was, “I don’t know. Maybe he is “torpe” or maybe he testing the waters..we don't know” At the back of my mind, if he has something, then he should say it. Because it is really damn difficult to think what are his moves all about.
I still believe in "Maria Clara" thing. I don’t do any move ‘til I could see with my both eyes that he is in to me. I was once, told assuming. And I don’t want that to happen again.
One day, my nurse friend was screaming my name at the hall running. When I turned around, she said “What if you try to message him pretending that this message is not his.. but you are sending it to him?” “What do you mean?” I asked.“ Do you mean that I will message him with a message that pretending it is not his but actually it is for him?” “Yes!” she said.“What for?” I replied back. “Well, you see, if you will do that, with the messages and the dilemma that you have, he will be able to read it and then he will realize that what he may be doing right now, might need for him to clear it up if he is really not into you or if he is.. he would say something about it. I thought twice, thrice. And so I did. I pretended to be texting a friend, stating that this guy (which is HIM) is showing gestures which is very confusing and all sent to his number. The next day was my worst day ever. When I opened my social media page, I saw him and my nurse friend flirting and commenting publicly with each other. It was the most painful thing that happened to me. I even saw how they talked about me in a comment thread. With that, coincidently, the mother of his little kids started to invade the privacy of their children by showing up in my home, showing up anywhere just to see her kids. But the point was, I was noted not to let his children meet the mom. She even begs for me to let her touch them. On my part, it was difficult. I was torn between two people who are hating each other plus what He is trying to do with me and with my nurse friend. I kept quiet and just followed the flow. I didn’t have sweet moments anymore with him. I didn’t have text with him anymore. And every comment thread for every day, I can feel it was me. I think he also sought the advice of my business partner, butfor confidentiality, I don't know what they spoke about. I was hurt. So hurt that led me not to eat since I don’t have a good appetite anymore. I cried all-day and night. Whined on every friend’s call to ask if I'm ok.I also,asked the help of my guy friends to go out with me and just be with me then cry. I was totally BALLISTIC! The worse part was.... the kids were still there. We are still seeing each other. But him, NOT anymore. No more visits. No more text. Only the kids. With my separation anxiety, this made me from 60kgs went down to 40kgs. And his social media network flirt with my friend continued. I looked like a person who is very ill. I said to myself, “I have to fight—I love his children”. I ignored the idea of them flirting with each other and still continued as nothing happened. But it was painful. It was like you were stabbed with many knives over and over again. I tried to fight again, this time I said, I have to get him back and the kids. One of my co-workers said, “Drink 3 table spoon of olive oil and ask her to drink and party”. I did and this time, I was pretending to be normal and ok when we met in a bar. She was so sexy (perhaps she was thinking I will bring HIM along).. we drank and got merry and then later maybe with her guilt, she cannot take it anymore, she got drunk, she burst into tears and said “Sorry ..my friend.. we did” … With those words …. I melted into tears and walked out. Before I don’t believe in psychosomatic illnesses. But it did happen to me. With all the pain He and She gave me, I had a fever on and off. Coughs and colds and the like ‘til when my fever was not going down and I had to be sent to the emergency. E.R. was the best scenario I ever had. The doctor gave me an oxygen so I can breathe well from the coughs and colds I had. My potassium was down and the like. The nurse who is in charge for me is no other than… HER. My parents went uncomfortable. The only thing that my father said was: “I think we should live for a while and both of you should talk”. She was their standing infront me of me asking for my forgiveness but that time it was so difficult to give her my forgiveness, you know why? because I won’t be in that E.R. room if was not for her. I just said, “Maybe you should go out first because I cannot carry the idea that you and I are here in one room and you have betrayed my trust. And why him? You know everything about us…why him? I was a good friend to you.. I am always there even when you’re sick.. I cook for you and the like.. why him?.... and I burst into tears again and again. She went out. After a minute or so when I was already tired from crying.. all the good things and happy moments that He and I had keeps on popping on my head. It was annoying. Because I know in me that it’s gone. No more.
For five years, I did not entertain any love life. I said to myself, that was enough. I don’t want to be in the same situation again. I don’t want my friend to be our third party again. I don’t want to meet a guy who is not sure of what he feels and so on. It may sound bitter but I was just avoiding things like what happened to me last time. It was expensive. (Laughs) because of the hospitalization etc. and it was too painful to keep. I could still remember when his sister-in-law came to visit me one day just to say hi and give me an oil that could help me with all of what I feel.
2016, remembering all thoseis already a story and lessons to learn to. When my mother, my sister and I were praying in the church, a tall man went behind me and said: “Miss, may I get your number?” ---- I was so surprised to see! It was his eldest and his nieces and …….my adorable one! They all hug me and was like we were asking what happened to our lives and the like. My eyes were moving and was looking for him… ‘til “bang!” there he goes, at my back of my right peripheral side and was too shy to say hi and go near. I just smiled and looked at him…he smiled back, moving my eyes farther, his brother is there, sister and sister-in-law .. I just smiled and nodded to let them know that I saw them .I got sad when my adorable one doesn’t know m and doesn’t even call me mama anymore. Oh well, years had gone by.
Presently, still single and unmarried and without children of my own. A lot are keep on asking why am I still single. As I always say, “It’s because I haven’t seen him yet!” They don’t believe me, they say that I am beautiful for someone NOT to be liked and loved by someone.
One of my colleagues now asks me: “What if He comes back to you? Will you still accept him back?” I replied and just gave a smile.
Lesson learned? don't believe at every action can a man show you, yes we do believe in the quote "Actions speaks louder than words" but this time, I was awaken that it is NOT. So be careful. Don't be so stupid and gullible like me. It will just lead you to heartbreak .
Lesson learned? don't believe at every action can a man show you, yes we do believe in the quote "Actions speaks louder than words" but this time, I was awaken that it is NOT. So be careful. Don't be so stupid and gullible like me. It will just lead you to heartbreak .
Sunday, June 5, 2016
Why Men tend to fall on their house help....tama ba yon?
Natatawa ako while doing this. Because the first thing that comes into my mind while typing is.... Yuck! Kadiri! may ganon? at marami pang ka echosan sa utak na Eww..yaya?!? Not to degrade women who work for us at home pero ang sabi nga ng isa sa mga nakakatanda sa pamilya namin .. "E konting delikadesa naman!" [Delikadesa: Delicadeza is a Spanish term which when translated in English means daintiness. It is defined as an act of being refined or delicate in tastes or manners. But in simple terms, its commonly referred to as a sense of propriety or how to behave rightly in all circumstances. It is in essence an etiquette that was passed on to us as a legacy of the Spanish culture.] O ayan! alam niyo na ang meaning ng Delikadesa.
Pero ang tanong din siguro ng marami, tulad ko, bakit nga ba mayroong ganoon? Sineduce ba sila ni yaya? talaga bang mayroon silang relasyon ni ate? literal na "mataas ang libido" ni kuya? literal na "makati si manang", nakita ni kuya ang wala sa asawa niya kay nanny?, nilasing ni ate si kuya etc... etc.. Ang mahirap sa kalakaran ngayon, palaging asar-talo ang among babae, kasi mayroon ng republic act... kiyeme..kiyeme tungkol sa pag-aalaga ng ating mga ka-yayahan sa bahay. Di ba naisip ng Pinas na kailangan ding gumawa ng batas para sa kasambahay na mahilig pumapel at mahilig uma-naconda ng among lalaki sa among babae. If I know, mukha namang kirarabels naman at katol na katol. What are those? Oh well, i-google na lang search on gay lingo or sward speak. Hahahahahaha.
By nature, napaka-swerte na lang ng isang girlaloo kung ang makukuha niyang jowa foreverloo ay sa kanya lang tumataas ang libido. Meaning....o alam niyo na! Ke-hipon pa ang babae, basta may vjayjay..gorabels.
Question 101: Paano kaya nakukuha ni Kuya makipag-lips-to-lips? Omg! and the fez..I'm not saying maganda ako, pero just come to think of it? what if kung may labintador pa ang bibig at kilimode? diba? and come to think also si misis, bonggabels kung kumayod para sa lahat sa pamilya, matalino, maganda etc.. tapos ganon lang?
Ayon sa isang article na nabasa ko, Men tend to fall to their househelp raw e it's because they see things or behavior that they did not see with their wives or common-law-partners for many years. That's bullshit! Di naman sa humu-who-goat. Wala pa akong asawa by the way so I dont think humu-who-goat ako. Let's say, O sige na nga, pero di pa rin excuse siya to be an atchay-killer. Kaya nga nilagay ni God ang brain sa head meaning siya ang unang gagamitin.. hindi yung head sa baba. Hahahaha.
Nakakafrustrate, very disappointing and depressing for us women, kung ang mga jowakels namin e ganoon. Para bang di ka na binigyan ng kahihiyan at the same time, we have given all our best for you men to be on where you are tapos pag-papalit ka lang sa isang anacondang katol. Just because umarangkanda lang si manoy!
Sa karamihan na ngayon, kahit hirap ang mga mudrakels at kababaihan sa kanilang mga oras sa trabaho at bahay, wala ng gustong kumuha ng mga kasambahay dahil nga sa mga ganoong kwento. Siyempre bilang babae, gusto lang din ng karamihan na maganda ang kanilang pamilya at mai-layo ang mga asawa sa mga ganoong kasambahay na dinaig pa ang isang pocahontas sa mga red streets.
Sa mga lalake diyan o among lalake na mahilig sa mga katol, pano kung si misis naman ang pumatol kay drayber? o houseboy? kayanin niyo kaya? lalo na kung alam na alam niyo sa sarili niyo na you dont deserve that kasi alam mong magaling ka at mahal mo siya?
Ang tangi ko lang masasabi para matapos ko na ito eh.. KONTING DELIKADESA LANG. Kung di talaga kayang pigilan ang pag-arangkada ni Manoy.. Sus! gawan ng paraan at huwag ng pumasok sa paraan na kahit ikaw mismo e di mo kayang i-defend sa sarili mo, sa misis mo at lalong lalo na sa mga anak mo pag dumating ang panahon ng pagsingaw ng utot. Hahahahaha di ba may kasabihan nga... walang UTOT ang di naaamoy.
P.S. Inspired by small chat with sister and aunt last night
Pero ang tanong din siguro ng marami, tulad ko, bakit nga ba mayroong ganoon? Sineduce ba sila ni yaya? talaga bang mayroon silang relasyon ni ate? literal na "mataas ang libido" ni kuya? literal na "makati si manang", nakita ni kuya ang wala sa asawa niya kay nanny?, nilasing ni ate si kuya etc... etc.. Ang mahirap sa kalakaran ngayon, palaging asar-talo ang among babae, kasi mayroon ng republic act... kiyeme..kiyeme tungkol sa pag-aalaga ng ating mga ka-yayahan sa bahay. Di ba naisip ng Pinas na kailangan ding gumawa ng batas para sa kasambahay na mahilig pumapel at mahilig uma-naconda ng among lalaki sa among babae. If I know, mukha namang kirarabels naman at katol na katol. What are those? Oh well, i-google na lang search on gay lingo or sward speak. Hahahahahaha.
By nature, napaka-swerte na lang ng isang girlaloo kung ang makukuha niyang jowa foreverloo ay sa kanya lang tumataas ang libido. Meaning....o alam niyo na! Ke-hipon pa ang babae, basta may vjayjay..gorabels.
Question 101: Paano kaya nakukuha ni Kuya makipag-lips-to-lips? Omg! and the fez..I'm not saying maganda ako, pero just come to think of it? what if kung may labintador pa ang bibig at kilimode? diba? and come to think also si misis, bonggabels kung kumayod para sa lahat sa pamilya, matalino, maganda etc.. tapos ganon lang?
Ayon sa isang article na nabasa ko, Men tend to fall to their househelp raw e it's because they see things or behavior that they did not see with their wives or common-law-partners for many years. That's bullshit! Di naman sa humu-who-goat. Wala pa akong asawa by the way so I dont think humu-who-goat ako. Let's say, O sige na nga, pero di pa rin excuse siya to be an atchay-killer. Kaya nga nilagay ni God ang brain sa head meaning siya ang unang gagamitin.. hindi yung head sa baba. Hahahaha.
Nakakafrustrate, very disappointing and depressing for us women, kung ang mga jowakels namin e ganoon. Para bang di ka na binigyan ng kahihiyan at the same time, we have given all our best for you men to be on where you are tapos pag-papalit ka lang sa isang anacondang katol. Just because umarangkanda lang si manoy!
Sa karamihan na ngayon, kahit hirap ang mga mudrakels at kababaihan sa kanilang mga oras sa trabaho at bahay, wala ng gustong kumuha ng mga kasambahay dahil nga sa mga ganoong kwento. Siyempre bilang babae, gusto lang din ng karamihan na maganda ang kanilang pamilya at mai-layo ang mga asawa sa mga ganoong kasambahay na dinaig pa ang isang pocahontas sa mga red streets.
Sa mga lalake diyan o among lalake na mahilig sa mga katol, pano kung si misis naman ang pumatol kay drayber? o houseboy? kayanin niyo kaya? lalo na kung alam na alam niyo sa sarili niyo na you dont deserve that kasi alam mong magaling ka at mahal mo siya?
Ang tangi ko lang masasabi para matapos ko na ito eh.. KONTING DELIKADESA LANG. Kung di talaga kayang pigilan ang pag-arangkada ni Manoy.. Sus! gawan ng paraan at huwag ng pumasok sa paraan na kahit ikaw mismo e di mo kayang i-defend sa sarili mo, sa misis mo at lalong lalo na sa mga anak mo pag dumating ang panahon ng pagsingaw ng utot. Hahahahaha di ba may kasabihan nga... walang UTOT ang di naaamoy.
P.S. Inspired by small chat with sister and aunt last night
Wednesday, May 25, 2016
When is Obedience ...Obedience?
Kelan nga ba ang pagsunod e pagsunod? Ang hirap ano? Sa katulad kong tahimik, walang kibo, oo lang ng oo. May mali pala doon. Kasi darating ang panahon na ang sarili mong mga mahal sa buhay ay di ka na rin mabibigyan ng value bilang tao. Para bang eto hanggang dito ka lang. Para bang makina ka na lang ang tingin mo sa sarili mo o yung bang nakikipamilya na lang ang feeling mo sa sarili mong loved ones. Dumarating din pala sa isang tao ang sagarang heartaches, na parang wala na ka na lang magawa "kasi eh" . Pero sa totoo lang hirap ka na. Noon hirap na hirap ka i-ends meet ang budget kahit ang ganda ng trabaho mo kasi sa dami ng tao nakatira sa iyo ng libre. Kuryente, cable, telepono, pagkain, repairs...lahat para bang salo mo na ang buong mundo. Di ka naman makahirit ng reklamo. Ngayon hirap ka pa rin i-ends meet kasi, nawalan ka ng freelance job. Na kahit papano ay nakakabuhay ng isang tao o pamilya. Pero walang tumutulong sayo. Kapag pala ang isang tao, nasaid ang yaman sa sarili bilang na bilang na lamang ang magiging kaibigan at swerte mo kung may isa man sa tinulungan mo o pinatira mo ang sumama sayo. Ngayon ko napapatunayan na ang buhay ay gamitan lang pala ano? Habang may silbi ka, ikaw ang pina magaling sa lahat kung baga MVP. Most Valuable Player ika nga. Kapag walang wala ka na at natitira na lamang sayo e kakapiraso... swerte mo nkung meron pa nga.. Una-unahan pa ang mga taong minahal mo, inaruga mo, binigyan mo ng buhay, binigyan mo ng pagkakataon makilala ang mga bagay na di nila alam noon..na mag-iiwas na para kang may putok o worst kunwari di ka kilala.
Lahat pala ng bagay may hangganan. Lahat din pala ng bagay pwede mong magawa kapag desperado ka na. Yung bang pinipilit mong maging nasa Tuwid na Daan ka.. pero walang mag-akay sayo sa Tuwid na Daan na yun kundi ang malugmok ka sa dumi para kumita lang.Marami ring mga offer na di ka makapaniwala sa sarili na oferan ka ng ganoon e di ka naman kasing ganda ng Ms. Universe. Ngayon ko naintindihan na ang buhay ay mahirap. Nasa iyo na lang kung paano mo paliligayahin ang iyong sarili para naman di boring ang life.
Para sa mga bagong magulang pa lamang.. gawing mahusay ang pagpapalaki sa mga anak. Laging tandaan kung ano man ang misunderstanding niyong mag-asawa ay sa inyo lang. Para naman sa pakiki-apid, at kung hindi talaga maiiwasan na gawin niyo iyon itago ng maiigi na di malalaman ng kung sino lalo na miyembro ng pamilya. Laging isipin ang mga anak ay anak. Kung Ano man ang gawin anak sa iyo pa rin babalik yan dahil kayo ang kinilala niyang pamilya.. kaya wag murahin..kutyain...o ipagtabuyan.
Mahirap sa isang tao ang di paniwalaan ng sariling mahal sa buhay. Paano kung kayo na lang pala ang inaasahan niyang makakaintiiindi sa kanya? Mahirap din yung lahat ginawa ng isang tao maitaguyod lang ang pamilya sa buhay na mahirap tapos para sa iyo pala wala lang siyang kwenta.
Bakit ko ito naisulat? na-ispire lang ako sa kinuwento ng isang kaibigan kong matalik at sana ay maging aral sa ating lahat na di sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay "you agree" dapat marunong ka rin mag -disagree para sa kabutihan ng puso mo at ng pagkatao mo at di ka maging biktima sa huli.
Lahat pala ng bagay may hangganan. Lahat din pala ng bagay pwede mong magawa kapag desperado ka na. Yung bang pinipilit mong maging nasa Tuwid na Daan ka.. pero walang mag-akay sayo sa Tuwid na Daan na yun kundi ang malugmok ka sa dumi para kumita lang.Marami ring mga offer na di ka makapaniwala sa sarili na oferan ka ng ganoon e di ka naman kasing ganda ng Ms. Universe. Ngayon ko naintindihan na ang buhay ay mahirap. Nasa iyo na lang kung paano mo paliligayahin ang iyong sarili para naman di boring ang life.
Para sa mga bagong magulang pa lamang.. gawing mahusay ang pagpapalaki sa mga anak. Laging tandaan kung ano man ang misunderstanding niyong mag-asawa ay sa inyo lang. Para naman sa pakiki-apid, at kung hindi talaga maiiwasan na gawin niyo iyon itago ng maiigi na di malalaman ng kung sino lalo na miyembro ng pamilya. Laging isipin ang mga anak ay anak. Kung Ano man ang gawin anak sa iyo pa rin babalik yan dahil kayo ang kinilala niyang pamilya.. kaya wag murahin..kutyain...o ipagtabuyan.
Mahirap sa isang tao ang di paniwalaan ng sariling mahal sa buhay. Paano kung kayo na lang pala ang inaasahan niyang makakaintiiindi sa kanya? Mahirap din yung lahat ginawa ng isang tao maitaguyod lang ang pamilya sa buhay na mahirap tapos para sa iyo pala wala lang siyang kwenta.
Bakit ko ito naisulat? na-ispire lang ako sa kinuwento ng isang kaibigan kong matalik at sana ay maging aral sa ating lahat na di sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay "you agree" dapat marunong ka rin mag -disagree para sa kabutihan ng puso mo at ng pagkatao mo at di ka maging biktima sa huli.
Thursday, May 19, 2016
It Must Have Been Love..but it's OVER now! The Story of Apples NBSB
Hahahahahahahahahaha! what a title...one of the greatest hits of Roxette in the 90's . In reality...it is too difficult to find LOVE. Describe LOVE....naku! mahabang explanation wag na lang. I am writing this to encourage women like me to still stay there and wait. Don't follow your impulse and jump into something that you would REGRET sometime in your life. I know it is hard.. quite difficult when you see in every friend reunion and family reunion that you all see them happy with their own families. I can say that. Because I'm there. Many would ask Nye! bakit? ang ganda mo tapos wala? Ok ka lang di ka ba tao? you know "the needs"? or meron pa... "tuod" ka ba...wahahahahahahahahaha.What a hell of questions pero sa totoo lang na-eenjoy mo yung moments being single. Own space. No Rules. You can do what you want etc....etc....
One disadvantage lang siguro is when you will be at the point of a bad pms as in ang target "emotional feelings" and then when you needed some support everybody is too busy with their thing.
Boom! you will feel totally ALONE.
What is the connection of this blog to the title? sabi nga ni Elle sa Legally Blonde movie "I promise I have a point!" Oh well.. a lot of women like me who is just in their average beauty, cleverness etc.. had experience situations like "It Must Have Been Love, But It's Over Now"..yung bang Ayan na! ang sweet etc.. yun pala sa huli Boom! di pala!
A lot of females are in this kind of dilemma. Some take it lightly.. some take it seriously.. kaya hirap maka-move on and worst di na maka -launch sa bagong pag-ibig. Just like what others do.. Forget about being inlove.
Lets get into Apples' life ...she has been into It must have been love... then ngwek! di pala. I like her fighting spirit nakakabilib. Even with her lots of launch in love na epic fail naman... aba! try and try o until you succeed ang motto niya sa buhay.
Experience#1 : First crush, first love, she's like a damn sunod-sunuran just to be liked by this childhood friend. When the guy left for U.S. Boom! heartbreak ang lola niyo. After 10 years he called her in her office? Wow! he knows? How? Why? ....and he even said sweet things to her...."arrange a reunion for all of us, I'll be the one to pay..." for her "why will I do that?" .. just do it.. what are friends are for. Ang tanga, ginawa naman. So eto ka na dumating... napasunod naman ni Apples yung mga childhood friend nila. So kanta moments sila, inom happy happy. Grand entrance si Guy....ooops may girl na kasama. Pero for her friends na nga lang diba. So Okay pa rin. Tuloy ang ligaya. Selfie-selfie together and of course silang dalawa.. etc. After months of staying in Manila. The girl in the party called her... "Hey Apples can you meet me? Ang loka sunod nanaman. She have her a rim of emails pretending to be Apples but actually Apples doesnt know anything about it. And she doesnt have that kind of email address.. Sa sobrang awa sa sarili ni Apples, and confusion.. literal pina-psyche niya pati yung rim ng emails. The psyche recommended for a cyber bullying crime. Apples went with the flow of the girl. She invited her to an engagement party. Wow! artista! may ganon papala.. Kung tutuusin Apples is living in a much better life than her. Sa loob loob na lang ni Apples, pag-lumabas ang demand letter at andito pa kayo lets see. At saka ang lakas ng tama nung girl kay Experience# 1 para mag-gagawa pa ng ganon.. She is totally an insane woman. Kawawang Apples.. suntok sa buwan ang vengeance. Hayaan na lang raw ang karma .
Experience#2
Nauso na si yahoo messenger.. chat dito chat doon. Astig! may nakapansin. Si Experience #2. He is a 5"11 handsome guy who lives with his whole family in a hectare of farm in Michigan. They had a LDR o yung tinatawag na long distance relationship for 3 years. Siyempre mamamatay sa kilig ang lola niyong si Apples. Pucha kamukha ba naman ni Dino Guevarra sa T.G.I.S. si guy. Weird you know because the guy proposed on chat. Where the witness is the 20 years yaya nila Apples. After a week, the ring came. Next week after, there was no foreign object who arrived in NAIA. The excuse of the guy, "Im too scared of the Abusayaf honey". Take note, nakipag video chat pa ang parents ni guy how safe will he be in the Philippines ang peg. Boom! hanggang sa totally wala na. The only memories Apples may have of him is the ring and her older sister who became friends with her in facebook.
Experience#3
New job! Higher position and Apples became sexier and prettier. With her soft and kind heart one time her cousin on her mom's side called her for a favor " girl, accept mo naman itong si German hottie para sa English Teacher niyo" anak ng amo ko ito magaling ito (accountant kasi siya ng mommy ni German hottie). Checking the credentials, aba'y true nga. Since they have one common denominator----her cousin, they became good friends. Oopps! uy pareho papala sila ng subdivision. so uso na ang carpool . Na nauwi sa MU malabong usapan. hahahahahahahaha. Taga-ayos ng neck tie, taga cheer up of the day, taga hawak ng wallet, HHWW (holding hands while walking) etc etc.. ang naging work ni Apples kay German Hottie pero ano sila? Well hindi nila alam kasi go with the flow ang peg. Intimacy? yes meron naman.. pero going down there? NONE saved after marriage raw. Bilib ako sa pagpalaki ng grandma ni Apples ang galing ng control.. which I think type ni German Hottie. Isang araw, may sakit raw si German Hottie. Di papasok. Ok so no carpool for the day. Apples made her work very fast checking every Teacher in class... and when she had a free time she bought lunch and went to German hottie's house... planning to eat lunch together and to check if he is fine na. Doorbel rings, bukas ng gate si becky yaya. "Ay ati bukit anditu ka?" (with an awkward look) ..."maglulunch tayo gaga! prepare table!"---"why are you on my way?...MOVE" (o diba patintero sila). They prepared the table. "Si Tita wala no? How long they will be in Germany?" ..becky yaya nods for yes but quiet. She called for German hottie's name many times aba walang sagot. Apples checked The Italian room (living room full of From Italy furnitures), the China room (2nd living room with China vases and all), the Mexican Dining (where they prepared the food and with mexican accents) ... The Royal Dining for fine dining parties and all the other rooms...hmmmm aba wala. ....except for the family room with Family Entertainment and aircon . From a far, you can hear something is squeaking. When Apples opened the door! Bam! German hottie is screwing their secretary in where they work.. Pucha! kaya pala wala rin... at #%$^&^&^%$ ina lang rin sabi mag-mcdonalds with their other friends. Betrayed by a friend? Yes!
Experience#4
The bestest of them ever! Apples went to reach her dream when it comes to..you know career . Now she's one of the partners of where she works. One day a single guy came into where she works since her partner is not around who is the founder. The aide called her inside the office and said "mam, ajan si sir medyo problematic, nakapambahay and he looks awful. When she tried to peep who the person was, aba oo nga he looks awful. Kawawa naman she thought. "Yaya get a roll of tissue be with them and I'll talk to the person outside". Uy naging counselor na siya even she doesnt know what to say since she's never been married. Before pa lang, her partner and the others were teasing her to the same person who is awful that day. Kasi they can smell something raw??? what?? e ano?? this awful guy kasi was always visible during summer time playing at grounds where she works before and kung tutuusin raw, he is not supposed to be there. Hmmm.. mga malisyosa. She doesnt like the guy. She finds him a matchstick and parang super depressed with his life. Days, months, passed, the guy started o text her in a questionable manner? why? he was her client.. mag text ba naman sayo si client ng "I'll be at _______ just check on them for me". Questionable diba? Meron pang isa, " Hi, where are you?" ang gagang Apples sinagot naman.."Ah at home po, why?" "I'm here lang in my friends house drinking". ?????? Mas questionable diba?? and the rest went "Good morning.. etc... and some simple messages na inignore na lang niya. One time, a little baby was keep on calling Apples mommy.... Weird. why? because the baby was the boy of the single guy. Scary pero smile na lang lola niyo. Another point fact, one time he just arrived at her house and the dad and the guy drank. You know bonding ng guys. ?????Why??? when he can feel na siguro that the alcohol is getting into him, he ran to Apples side and just quietly stayed at her side with a red face. Then the story of kilig went on. To make it short, one time the other kid of the same person, medyo malaki na ito, is keep on asking her, do you have a bf? do u like him? and the like.. e ano naman ngayon when he asked the boy. Well, the boy smartly answered, If he likes you, will it be ok? bec if it is..you will be a good mom to us.. youre so caring etc... Apples heart melted. Pero shempre di pahalata. Pero questionable pa rin. Nahihiya naman siyang magtanong kung anong meron. At baka magmukha lang siyang tanga. One time, with fb she saw her friend's comment thread with Exp#4 na shocks siya nakita niya? di naman siya malisyosa but what she saw alarmed her and she panicked. Until one time, her gut feel was right. Wala na .. He went cold.. she doesnt know why. Until one day she let her friend went drunk at siya lumaklak ng Olive oil para di malasing. This girl confessed something that broke her heart.Betrayal #2 by a friend? O yes! yes! yes!
Crap! Wala na talaga. She pulled away herself from the situation even if for it was the hardest part for her. She went like a matchstick. Zombie like. Had asthma na before wala naman. Na E.R. ang loka! at keep on sorry naman si friendster sa E.R. nung nalaman niyang ang patient niya e si Apples. Siyempre, separation anxiety ba naman e. Pick Pack Boom! sayang diba.. happy ending story sana diba? pero hindi, sabi ni Direct God, wag tapusin ang teleserye malay mo baka may twist. hahahahahahahahahaha.
Experience#5
Healing her heart, her cousins were the craziest of them all! They went out sometime along the nearest commercial area and bond with their youngest Uncle. Invited pala 2 of their childhood playmates. Both have been to another country for work and they are here for a rest. Ok. after 1 week, one of the invited, called Apples and asked her for meet up in a coffeeshop. Nyak! galing bang Saudi para maging balbas sarado?!?!?! test pala yun. hahahahaha then the story carry on and they went ok.. then later on Apples father went ballistic when he found out that this guy was trying to pursue her. Pero siyempre di pahalata.Ito namang si father e malisyoso and very judgemental. Wala pa nga akala mo magpapasakal na este magpapakasal na. He tried to question the guy after dinner with the family.
"Kung kayo na anong gagawin mo sa anak ko?" "Kaya mo bang buhayin anak ko?" Wow! over-reacting diba? So then after a week.....chuk..chak... ting! Wala na si guy... pasok ngayon si Imelda Papin dito... "Isang linggong Pag-ibig" ....Hahahahahahahahaha!
Between Experience #2 and 3 meron pang-isa... si Bestfriend in highschool... they were like best friends for the longest time and was caring with each other every downs in their lives. On Apples birthday, He confessed his feelings to her. But she didnt say yes kasi nga Apples doesnt want their friendships to be ruined. However, deep inside her she wanted to say Yes. Duwag lang. Bestfriend went home. They didnt meet for 4 months. Until nagulat na lang si Apples, kinasal na sa ibang country. Heart breaking? Yes. Pero kunwari hindi.
You see, she was branded by her crazy cousins and friends as NBSB, but I dont think she was. She had this beautiful moments with these different people nga lang at the end, some became jerks.. and kung di naman, di natapos ang storya ng teleserye nila.
Nagiintay ka pa ba ng Experience#6? from her? well she does too! She keeps on praying and trying hard to meet this "one" who will make the story a happy ending. Love, mahirap i-explain pero once its there..its there and just let every moment sparkle with kilig, laughter and being together.
-anythingunderthesun
One disadvantage lang siguro is when you will be at the point of a bad pms as in ang target "emotional feelings" and then when you needed some support everybody is too busy with their thing.
Boom! you will feel totally ALONE.
What is the connection of this blog to the title? sabi nga ni Elle sa Legally Blonde movie "I promise I have a point!" Oh well.. a lot of women like me who is just in their average beauty, cleverness etc.. had experience situations like "It Must Have Been Love, But It's Over Now"..yung bang Ayan na! ang sweet etc.. yun pala sa huli Boom! di pala!
A lot of females are in this kind of dilemma. Some take it lightly.. some take it seriously.. kaya hirap maka-move on and worst di na maka -launch sa bagong pag-ibig. Just like what others do.. Forget about being inlove.
Lets get into Apples' life ...she has been into It must have been love... then ngwek! di pala. I like her fighting spirit nakakabilib. Even with her lots of launch in love na epic fail naman... aba! try and try o until you succeed ang motto niya sa buhay.
Experience#1 : First crush, first love, she's like a damn sunod-sunuran just to be liked by this childhood friend. When the guy left for U.S. Boom! heartbreak ang lola niyo. After 10 years he called her in her office? Wow! he knows? How? Why? ....and he even said sweet things to her...."arrange a reunion for all of us, I'll be the one to pay..." for her "why will I do that?" .. just do it.. what are friends are for. Ang tanga, ginawa naman. So eto ka na dumating... napasunod naman ni Apples yung mga childhood friend nila. So kanta moments sila, inom happy happy. Grand entrance si Guy....ooops may girl na kasama. Pero for her friends na nga lang diba. So Okay pa rin. Tuloy ang ligaya. Selfie-selfie together and of course silang dalawa.. etc. After months of staying in Manila. The girl in the party called her... "Hey Apples can you meet me? Ang loka sunod nanaman. She have her a rim of emails pretending to be Apples but actually Apples doesnt know anything about it. And she doesnt have that kind of email address.. Sa sobrang awa sa sarili ni Apples, and confusion.. literal pina-psyche niya pati yung rim ng emails. The psyche recommended for a cyber bullying crime. Apples went with the flow of the girl. She invited her to an engagement party. Wow! artista! may ganon papala.. Kung tutuusin Apples is living in a much better life than her. Sa loob loob na lang ni Apples, pag-lumabas ang demand letter at andito pa kayo lets see. At saka ang lakas ng tama nung girl kay Experience# 1 para mag-gagawa pa ng ganon.. She is totally an insane woman. Kawawang Apples.. suntok sa buwan ang vengeance. Hayaan na lang raw ang karma .
Experience#2
Nauso na si yahoo messenger.. chat dito chat doon. Astig! may nakapansin. Si Experience #2. He is a 5"11 handsome guy who lives with his whole family in a hectare of farm in Michigan. They had a LDR o yung tinatawag na long distance relationship for 3 years. Siyempre mamamatay sa kilig ang lola niyong si Apples. Pucha kamukha ba naman ni Dino Guevarra sa T.G.I.S. si guy. Weird you know because the guy proposed on chat. Where the witness is the 20 years yaya nila Apples. After a week, the ring came. Next week after, there was no foreign object who arrived in NAIA. The excuse of the guy, "Im too scared of the Abusayaf honey". Take note, nakipag video chat pa ang parents ni guy how safe will he be in the Philippines ang peg. Boom! hanggang sa totally wala na. The only memories Apples may have of him is the ring and her older sister who became friends with her in facebook.
Experience#3
New job! Higher position and Apples became sexier and prettier. With her soft and kind heart one time her cousin on her mom's side called her for a favor " girl, accept mo naman itong si German hottie para sa English Teacher niyo" anak ng amo ko ito magaling ito (accountant kasi siya ng mommy ni German hottie). Checking the credentials, aba'y true nga. Since they have one common denominator----her cousin, they became good friends. Oopps! uy pareho papala sila ng subdivision. so uso na ang carpool . Na nauwi sa MU malabong usapan. hahahahahahahaha. Taga-ayos ng neck tie, taga cheer up of the day, taga hawak ng wallet, HHWW (holding hands while walking) etc etc.. ang naging work ni Apples kay German Hottie pero ano sila? Well hindi nila alam kasi go with the flow ang peg. Intimacy? yes meron naman.. pero going down there? NONE saved after marriage raw. Bilib ako sa pagpalaki ng grandma ni Apples ang galing ng control.. which I think type ni German Hottie. Isang araw, may sakit raw si German Hottie. Di papasok. Ok so no carpool for the day. Apples made her work very fast checking every Teacher in class... and when she had a free time she bought lunch and went to German hottie's house... planning to eat lunch together and to check if he is fine na. Doorbel rings, bukas ng gate si becky yaya. "Ay ati bukit anditu ka?" (with an awkward look) ..."maglulunch tayo gaga! prepare table!"---"why are you on my way?...MOVE" (o diba patintero sila). They prepared the table. "Si Tita wala no? How long they will be in Germany?" ..becky yaya nods for yes but quiet. She called for German hottie's name many times aba walang sagot. Apples checked The Italian room (living room full of From Italy furnitures), the China room (2nd living room with China vases and all), the Mexican Dining (where they prepared the food and with mexican accents) ... The Royal Dining for fine dining parties and all the other rooms...hmmmm aba wala. ....except for the family room with Family Entertainment and aircon . From a far, you can hear something is squeaking. When Apples opened the door! Bam! German hottie is screwing their secretary in where they work.. Pucha! kaya pala wala rin... at #%$^&^&^%$ ina lang rin sabi mag-mcdonalds with their other friends. Betrayed by a friend? Yes!
Experience#4
The bestest of them ever! Apples went to reach her dream when it comes to..you know career . Now she's one of the partners of where she works. One day a single guy came into where she works since her partner is not around who is the founder. The aide called her inside the office and said "mam, ajan si sir medyo problematic, nakapambahay and he looks awful. When she tried to peep who the person was, aba oo nga he looks awful. Kawawa naman she thought. "Yaya get a roll of tissue be with them and I'll talk to the person outside". Uy naging counselor na siya even she doesnt know what to say since she's never been married. Before pa lang, her partner and the others were teasing her to the same person who is awful that day. Kasi they can smell something raw??? what?? e ano?? this awful guy kasi was always visible during summer time playing at grounds where she works before and kung tutuusin raw, he is not supposed to be there. Hmmm.. mga malisyosa. She doesnt like the guy. She finds him a matchstick and parang super depressed with his life. Days, months, passed, the guy started o text her in a questionable manner? why? he was her client.. mag text ba naman sayo si client ng "I'll be at _______ just check on them for me". Questionable diba? Meron pang isa, " Hi, where are you?" ang gagang Apples sinagot naman.."Ah at home po, why?" "I'm here lang in my friends house drinking". ?????? Mas questionable diba?? and the rest went "Good morning.. etc... and some simple messages na inignore na lang niya. One time, a little baby was keep on calling Apples mommy.... Weird. why? because the baby was the boy of the single guy. Scary pero smile na lang lola niyo. Another point fact, one time he just arrived at her house and the dad and the guy drank. You know bonding ng guys. ?????Why??? when he can feel na siguro that the alcohol is getting into him, he ran to Apples side and just quietly stayed at her side with a red face. Then the story of kilig went on. To make it short, one time the other kid of the same person, medyo malaki na ito, is keep on asking her, do you have a bf? do u like him? and the like.. e ano naman ngayon when he asked the boy. Well, the boy smartly answered, If he likes you, will it be ok? bec if it is..you will be a good mom to us.. youre so caring etc... Apples heart melted. Pero shempre di pahalata. Pero questionable pa rin. Nahihiya naman siyang magtanong kung anong meron. At baka magmukha lang siyang tanga. One time, with fb she saw her friend's comment thread with Exp#4 na shocks siya nakita niya? di naman siya malisyosa but what she saw alarmed her and she panicked. Until one time, her gut feel was right. Wala na .. He went cold.. she doesnt know why. Until one day she let her friend went drunk at siya lumaklak ng Olive oil para di malasing. This girl confessed something that broke her heart.Betrayal #2 by a friend? O yes! yes! yes!
Crap! Wala na talaga. She pulled away herself from the situation even if for it was the hardest part for her. She went like a matchstick. Zombie like. Had asthma na before wala naman. Na E.R. ang loka! at keep on sorry naman si friendster sa E.R. nung nalaman niyang ang patient niya e si Apples. Siyempre, separation anxiety ba naman e. Pick Pack Boom! sayang diba.. happy ending story sana diba? pero hindi, sabi ni Direct God, wag tapusin ang teleserye malay mo baka may twist. hahahahahahahahahaha.
Experience#5
Healing her heart, her cousins were the craziest of them all! They went out sometime along the nearest commercial area and bond with their youngest Uncle. Invited pala 2 of their childhood playmates. Both have been to another country for work and they are here for a rest. Ok. after 1 week, one of the invited, called Apples and asked her for meet up in a coffeeshop. Nyak! galing bang Saudi para maging balbas sarado?!?!?! test pala yun. hahahahaha then the story carry on and they went ok.. then later on Apples father went ballistic when he found out that this guy was trying to pursue her. Pero siyempre di pahalata.Ito namang si father e malisyoso and very judgemental. Wala pa nga akala mo magpapasakal na este magpapakasal na. He tried to question the guy after dinner with the family.
"Kung kayo na anong gagawin mo sa anak ko?" "Kaya mo bang buhayin anak ko?" Wow! over-reacting diba? So then after a week.....chuk..chak... ting! Wala na si guy... pasok ngayon si Imelda Papin dito... "Isang linggong Pag-ibig" ....Hahahahahahahahaha!
Between Experience #2 and 3 meron pang-isa... si Bestfriend in highschool... they were like best friends for the longest time and was caring with each other every downs in their lives. On Apples birthday, He confessed his feelings to her. But she didnt say yes kasi nga Apples doesnt want their friendships to be ruined. However, deep inside her she wanted to say Yes. Duwag lang. Bestfriend went home. They didnt meet for 4 months. Until nagulat na lang si Apples, kinasal na sa ibang country. Heart breaking? Yes. Pero kunwari hindi.
You see, she was branded by her crazy cousins and friends as NBSB, but I dont think she was. She had this beautiful moments with these different people nga lang at the end, some became jerks.. and kung di naman, di natapos ang storya ng teleserye nila.
Nagiintay ka pa ba ng Experience#6? from her? well she does too! She keeps on praying and trying hard to meet this "one" who will make the story a happy ending. Love, mahirap i-explain pero once its there..its there and just let every moment sparkle with kilig, laughter and being together.
-anythingunderthesun
Tuesday, May 17, 2016
Simple chit-chats with kids make our everyday less wrinkles!
Did you ever know that talking to kids make our day to day lives less wrinkles? I can approve on that. As a worker who works with kids in the 16 years of my life, if you are going to see me from the day I graduated up to the present you would say I am one of the people whose may be immortal because walang nagbago! hahahaha! hindi naman sa nagbubuhat ng sariling bangko!
I could still remember the days with this my favorite little kid with a hottie daddy....
(inside their SUV car)
hottie daddy: Who is this?
kid: momma! (smiling and asking for me to hug him) #howcutethefacewas
me:no.. im not your momma! (thinking nye! sino kaya nagturo niyon sa kanya)
hottie daddy: (awkward)(siguro iniisip rin niya..."pucha anak baka isipin ni teacher tinuro ko yan sayo")
kid: momma (my name)!
me: no.. i am not your momma..i am teacher (my name)... daddy dont worry about it, he 's just like that because...you know the situation .....
Naku! pero those days of my life was like kulang na lang mamamatay na ako sa kilig. Kasi ano nga ba naman ang status hottie daddy? since single ka naman at iba ang treatment mo kasi, iniintay ka lang magsabi literally. hahahahahahaha.
Another thing that really made me laugh recently is what my little god daughter said when we were watching tv. Yung bang tawa na kulang na lang hindi ka na makahinga at ang luha mo non-stop. Sabi ba naman niya:
Kid: Ninang, malapit na tayong mag-beach, excited ako!
Ninang: Ah ganoon ba? ako ganoon rin kaya lang sad din a little kasi were not complete.
Kid: (looking at my pimple) Ninang anyare? bakit may GERMS ka sa face mo?
Ninang: Wahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! ( wala na di na maka-explain kasi naman laughtrip talga) (sa isip ko kakanood siguro ng safeguard sa commercials germs na ang tawag ngayon sa pimples)
Long time ago, an 8-year old kid was trying to convince me to like his hottie dad.
Kid: teacher are you single?
Me: yup
Kid : No boyfriend?
Me : (buntong hininga) yes why?
Kid: My dad is single too
Me: So?
Kid: Do you like him?
Me: What?!!!! how did it come to your mind that question?
Kid: nothing I just want to know because my dad is single and you are single and you are so caring to us... you will be a good mom.
Me: Oh thank you if that is a compliment
Kid: what if my dad likes you?
Me: (laughs)(eyes are big) really?
Kid: what if ?
Me: lets see....
Pero deep in my heart kilig nanaman ang lola niyo! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
There was this little girl that I like much because she looks like Audrey Hepburn.
Kid: Wow! you look so beautiful with that dress
Me: oh thank you (pero parang di naniniwala)
Kid: you dont believe dont ya?
Me: Smiles
Kid: You do. You are pretty.
Another little girl look like Pinky Amador naman... and she said
Kid: I love you. I hope you will be with me forever
Me: heart melts
There is this 9-year old boy
Kid: Miss I'm giving you flowers
Me: Oh thank you but what's the occassion?
Kid: nothing! but I want you to be girlfriend because you are beautiful inside and out
me: Thank you (nag-isip.. aba! meron na siyang nalalaman na ganon?!?!)
Actually marami pa yan, kaya lang ang hirap i-remember nung iba...ito yung nagstick sa mind ko hanggang ngayon because it make smile everyday of my life.
I could still remember the days with this my favorite little kid with a hottie daddy....
(inside their SUV car)
hottie daddy: Who is this?
kid: momma! (smiling and asking for me to hug him) #howcutethefacewas
me:no.. im not your momma! (thinking nye! sino kaya nagturo niyon sa kanya)
hottie daddy: (awkward)(siguro iniisip rin niya..."pucha anak baka isipin ni teacher tinuro ko yan sayo")
kid: momma (my name)!
me: no.. i am not your momma..i am teacher (my name)... daddy dont worry about it, he 's just like that because...you know the situation .....
Naku! pero those days of my life was like kulang na lang mamamatay na ako sa kilig. Kasi ano nga ba naman ang status hottie daddy? since single ka naman at iba ang treatment mo kasi, iniintay ka lang magsabi literally. hahahahahahaha.
Another thing that really made me laugh recently is what my little god daughter said when we were watching tv. Yung bang tawa na kulang na lang hindi ka na makahinga at ang luha mo non-stop. Sabi ba naman niya:
Kid: Ninang, malapit na tayong mag-beach, excited ako!
Ninang: Ah ganoon ba? ako ganoon rin kaya lang sad din a little kasi were not complete.
Kid: (looking at my pimple) Ninang anyare? bakit may GERMS ka sa face mo?
Ninang: Wahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! ( wala na di na maka-explain kasi naman laughtrip talga) (sa isip ko kakanood siguro ng safeguard sa commercials germs na ang tawag ngayon sa pimples)
Long time ago, an 8-year old kid was trying to convince me to like his hottie dad.
Kid: teacher are you single?
Me: yup
Kid : No boyfriend?
Me : (buntong hininga) yes why?
Kid: My dad is single too
Me: So?
Kid: Do you like him?
Me: What?!!!! how did it come to your mind that question?
Kid: nothing I just want to know because my dad is single and you are single and you are so caring to us... you will be a good mom.
Me: Oh thank you if that is a compliment
Kid: what if my dad likes you?
Me: (laughs)(eyes are big) really?
Kid: what if ?
Me: lets see....
Pero deep in my heart kilig nanaman ang lola niyo! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
There was this little girl that I like much because she looks like Audrey Hepburn.
Kid: Wow! you look so beautiful with that dress
Me: oh thank you (pero parang di naniniwala)
Kid: you dont believe dont ya?
Me: Smiles
Kid: You do. You are pretty.
Another little girl look like Pinky Amador naman... and she said
Kid: I love you. I hope you will be with me forever
Me: heart melts
There is this 9-year old boy
Kid: Miss I'm giving you flowers
Me: Oh thank you but what's the occassion?
Kid: nothing! but I want you to be girlfriend because you are beautiful inside and out
me: Thank you (nag-isip.. aba! meron na siyang nalalaman na ganon?!?!)
Actually marami pa yan, kaya lang ang hirap i-remember nung iba...ito yung nagstick sa mind ko hanggang ngayon because it make smile everyday of my life.
A New Neighborhood For You
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front facade from turning right to la paz st. |
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front yard      |
The area is 280 square meters and the floor area is 140 square meters. They are open to foreigners who wish to reside in the Philippines with their Filipina wives and usual the sale is also open for locals like us who wish to reside in a well-known biggest subdivision at the South - BF Homes.
The owner is a family of 5. Happy family of adults. As life gave them new discoveries and new places to reside due to new careers and new environment to raise a family as well as with their new business venture in Trece Martires Cavite, going back and forth from Trece Martires to BF is like a "far, far, away land" for them to journey on a daily basis. Just imagine how much "gas" they will have to pay every day? For practical reason and decision even it is a "heartbreaking" for them because the kids grew here and the house was the only witness of their achievements in their lives. They have decided to let go of their home hopefully to a good buyer.
For those who are interested, you may contact, 09152496530, 09177396490, 09185159511 for details and to answer your questions.
- Near Southmall, Japanese Resto, Carwash and Carinderia, Puregold Southland
- Total access for BF Jeep, Trike (Regular and Special), Pedicab - NO HASSLE if you wish REST DAY for your car.
- We had Ondoy and Milenyo WE NEVER HAD FLOODS even on ankle level.
- Friendly neighborhood
- Quiet Area the first thing who will greet you in the morning are the birds flying around
- Water is no problem, It has Maynilad and Deep Well Water machine
- has 2 jackfruit trees, 1 indian mango tree, 4 banana trees, 1 moringa tree and 1 calamansi plant
- kids can run all over the house since the house is in the middle of the lot
- 1 Master bedroom with toilet and bath
- 2 rooms sharing the common toilet and bath
- living room
- dining area
- kitchen
- dirty kitchen
- side lanai to enjoy your coffee or tea with the breeze of the cold wind
- laundry area
- backyard - used as area for airing the clothes and who knows for more improvements
- 3ft pool area.
- precast walls - buhos - "good foundation for a 2nd floor)"
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